Crazy Psychologist

"[Indulgence] can have many deformations, such as long-term relationships, other than marriage, that kind of long-term fixed relationship - it can be regarded as more than friendship, this is one kind."

Muchun looked at Bai Lu, waiting for Bai Lu's confirmation or denial.

Bai Lu nodded slightly, "That's right."

After Muchun received the affirmation, he continued: "There is another situation like yours. It's short-lived, for a night or just a few hours."

"Yeah, I wish I had just a few minutes."

"Pfft." Muchun couldn't help laughing, "This."

"I'm telling the truth. The truth sometimes sounds a bit extreme. Don't be offended."

Muchun tilted his head and thought for a long time, then suddenly said seriously: "The situation you mentioned does not exist. Maybe there are quite a few like this."

"Stop it, doctor, you know I didn't mean it."

"But at least it might also be a deformation of the ideal."

Muchun wrote on the paper: [Transformation 2]

"As for the third transformation," before Mu Chun could finish speaking, Bai Lu interrupted him.

"Is there a third transformation? No more, I think it's almost done."

Mu Chun seemed to be inspired, and his eyes were shining with pride.

"What? I understand these two now, is there anything else?"

"Yes, I actually thought about it. Maybe it's more suitable for people in the future."

Muchun clasped his hands together happily. "The third transformation may be someone who loves you very much and can accompany you through your loneliness without actually betraying your husband [Transformation 3]."

"Huh? What's that?"

"For example, a robot that can chat with you at any time, sing to you, tell you jokes, and say I love you countless times every day - or a program?"

Bai Lu raised her head and circled her neck, only to feel the pain in her cervical spine coming back again.

Thinking about Muchun's words again, I can only say that this doctor's brain circuit is a bit weird.

"Next let's break the link."

Muchun raised his hands and snapped his fingers at the same time.

"Break the chain?"

Bai Lu repeated it in confusion.

"Yes, break the chain. Most people will trigger reward or compensatory behavior due to specific circumstances, and over time this reflex becomes fixed, just like a dog salivating when it hears a bell.

For you, it means that once loneliness hits you, you want to drink.

This behavior chain is formed when a person becomes fixed because a certain habit is repeatedly reinforced.

If you want to change something, you have to study where to break the chain.

Muchun turned the paper again to the page written by Bai Lu.

“Look at this chain, [Alcohol]-[Indulgence]-[Morality]-[Pain]

[Drinking]-[Indulgence]-[Reducing Loneliness]

Bai Lu thought for a moment and said, "Actually, I think this place has been broken."

"where?"

Muchun asked.

"It's what I told you last time when I met a woman disguised as a man in a jazz bar. Now I feel sick just thinking about taking that person home. Thinking about the way that monster stared at me, I don't even want to go to the bar. went.

On the weekend, I actually bought a bottle of wine and drank two glasses of wine by myself when I got home. In fact, there may not be [indulgence] that I can’t quit. What I can’t change may be [loneliness]-[alcohol]. The cycle, and the subsequent [indulgence]-[pain] may be the effect of inertia like a slide. What happens after drinking is not entirely determined by one's own will.

In fact, I suffered a lot. "

Bai Lu said with a depressed expression, so Mu Chun repeatedly erased the word "indulgence" on the paper with a black ink pen.

"It seems like we got a blessing in disguise, which can be considered a good thing."

She was obviously feeling very uncomfortable, so why did the doctor say such things? Bai Lu reluctantly showed a smile.

She guessed that she must be smiling terribly.

Muchun added, "At least it's better than that Pavlov's dog. It's better than giving it a whipping stimulus every time it drools when it sees food, and forcibly blocking this behavioral reflex."

In short, one behavior promotes another behavior, and one behavior can replace or change another behavior. The appearance of that weird woman gives you an extreme feeling of disgust. This feeling is like an ice cube, directly Shattered the middle section of the chain, so now it's just a little simpler, alcohol and pain. "

"Yes, it can be said that there is also loneliness. There is no way to solve this problem. My husband will not suddenly be at home and not go out. I cannot hope that I will become a woman who must rely on her husband to be at home so that she does not feel lonely. This is not right and reasonable. method.

"Well, what about having a long-term love partner?"

"This is not appropriate." Bai Lu thought to herself, why did his style suddenly change to want to pursue me? This doctor wouldn't recommend himself as a love partner in the next sentence.

Bai Lu's prediction was indeed correct. After Mu Chun said the last sentence, he immediately introduced himself, "Look at me, I can learn piano from the teacher, and I can also relieve the teacher's worries. Even if I am lonely, I should be able to find someone." Here’s a solution.”

"Huh? Well, although the doctor is very good."

Bai Lu was unwilling in her heart, but she thought that Muchun had been caring about her these days, and if she got into trouble with him, who would she seek medical treatment from in the future?

It was said that I was seeing a doctor, but I didn't see anything. The medicine only prescribed some sleeping aids and nutritional supplements. From time to time, I always suggested a cervical spine examination and whether I needed to take another X-ray of my waist. However, People’s enthusiasm for learning the piano seems to be genuine.

Wouldn't it be too embarrassing to refuse like this?

Bai Lu suddenly felt that she was not in a hospital, nor was she talking to a doctor who was treating patients and saving people. She suddenly felt that she was at the company's conference table, and she felt like she was talking to her deceased father.

Muchun requested again: "I am really a very safe and good person. You see, I am also a doctor. I can keep Teacher Bai Lu super healthy."

"This~~~~~is your kindness."

"Promise me, Teacher Bai Lu, promise me, I will be very careful and will never embarrass Teacher Bai Lu."

“Never thought about a long-term love partner”

When Bai Lu said this, she had already begun to imagine what Mu Chun's long-term love partner would look like, maybe walking together at night? Practice piano together? Or have dinner together after get off work?

Can we call and chat if you have nothing to do?

If that's just the case, maybe~~~~maybe~~~~~~ there's no need to refuse? This avoids embarrassing each other.