Crazy Psychologist

Is it mental distress caused by physical illness, self-injury, domestic violence, abuse, inattention and other behaviors caused by physical illness at the same time, or other influences, such as public opinion guidance, news, online media communication, etc.

The nature of human social life determines that every symptom of a person requires the psychosomatic doctor to pay close attention to it, and constantly find and adjust treatment plans during treatment.

Sometimes, the treatment will get into trouble or even regress, and sometimes it is necessary to refer to other doctors for assistance in time. These situations are difficult to completely avoid, and more often, the first thing that physical and mental doctors have to solve is the patient's doubts and confidence.

If the patient has no confidence and does not believe that your work will help him at all, then the treatment will be just talk on paper and wishful thinking at best.

No matter how much the doctor launches treatment with wishful thinking and the patient is wary or disbelieving, he or she is always putting the cart before the horse and doing nothing.

Every patient's situation is different. Sometimes what the doctor needs to do is to set aside enough time and not to force the patient, let alone rush the patient.

This was Li Mu's current situation. After more than a minute, Li Mu drank the entire cup of coffee. After drinking all the coffee, the twelve ice cubes had not completely melted.

Li Mu took a deep breath, and then said: "I'm afraid I will be impulsive and I will quarrel with my wife."

After speaking, Li Mu's face looked a little ugly, full of self-blame, and his right hand clenched into a fist trembled slightly, sometimes getting better and sometimes getting worse. It could be seen that Li Mu was trying to control his emotions.

"Well, did you have a fight last night?" Mu Chun tried to ask.

"Yes, we had a quarrel last night and another quarrel this morning. She threw all the bags I bought for her on the floor, as well as the shoes, lipstick, cosmetics, and many, many clothes I bought for her. She likes those I always buy her luxuries, but she doesn’t seem to cherish them. Every time we quarrel, she throws away whatever is expensive. I think this is not good, but I have no choice because I can’t control my temper. I don’t want to do this. , I really don’t want this.”

Li Mu released his clenched fists, rested his elbows on the table, and held his forehead with his palms. He rubbed the right side of his forehead and shook his head repeatedly.

"It seems that both of you can't control your temper." Muchun tried to express his understanding.

Li Mu is very tired and has to wait for a long time to say a word. This kind of Li Mu does not look like a "star" who can participate in variety shows. Nowadays, some of the more popular variety shows are either talk shows or running men. They at least require the guests to be more excited and more responsive. They cannot be silent like Li Mu.

Li Mu kept rubbing his forehead, his eyes were red when he raised his head, "Doctor, my purpose is very simple, I don't want to quarrel anymore, I just don't want to quarrel anymore, I feel that my life is in a mess now, and there are some problems with my work. "

"Is it because of your emotions? Because of your temper, your work has also been affected?" Mu Chun asked.

Li Mu nodded, "Yes, that should be the case. I feel that I can't control my temper, which offends people very much. Originally, I was going to become a shareholder of the company, but just because of my temper, how should I say, I have recently been I feel too tired. When I am tired, I get even more angry. When I get angry, I will think about not listening to those who don’t like what I say, so I want to quit. I will choose another company based on my ability, even if it is from a new company. It’s okay to start from scratch.”

"Well, I remembered, have you ever participated in the program [Talent and Intelligence], which is full of young talents in the financial industry, so are you from the financial industry~~~~ with an annual income of millions? ?" Muchun asked with a red face and super envy.

It always makes people happy to be praised, especially when they really match the content of others' praise.

Li Mu raised his head, looked at Muchun, swung his shoulders back and forth, and said, "It's true, I have participated in that program, and there were many Ph.D.s from the Department of Economics at Fudan University. students, as well as financial industry practitioners who returned from studying in the UK, all under the age of 35. After the recording of that program ended, I became busier. It was probably from that time that the relationship between my wife and I became somewhat Oops."

"Oops?" Muchun frowned.

"Yes, how should I put it? I think I am very good to her, but she always asks many, many times if I am only good to her. Sometimes when I work late at night, she keeps calling me. , I am also very serious about my work, and I don’t think about other things at all, but she is very clingy and wants to stare at me." Li Mu said, picking up the cup again to take a sip of coffee, but ended up drinking it. A swig of ice water.

Muchun said, "It's really enviable. It's super enviable to have a wife who is still clinging to her. But if you're particularly clingy, you'll get irritable."

As soon as the conversation changed, Li Mu nodded immediately, as if he saw a confidant.

"You are a well-known person, wouldn't it be good if people always think you are a man who is afraid of his wife?" Muchun asked lazily.

Li Mu held his forehead and shook his head again. Muchun guessed that this was probably Li Mu's habitual movement. He would do this posture when he was thinking about a problem or encountering troubles.

Humans have many postures, each representing different meanings. These meanings are closely related to the language and culture of different places.

Individual people also have many habitual actions. For example, some people bite their nails when they are nervous, some people purse their lips when thinking about problems, some people clench their fists when they are anxious, some people shake their feet when talking, and some people touch their noses when they see girls. , there is obviously nothing on the nose.

Now it seems that Li Mu's habitual action is to rub his right wrist against his hairline.

"Yes, it's not very good, but I'll forget about it. I won't say more today. It doesn't seem appropriate for a man to complain to the doctor in the hospital that his wife clings to him." Li Mu raised his head, his shoulders sank, and his upper body straightened After bending it a little, it finally didn't look so handsome anymore.

Muchun snapped his fingers and said cheerfully: "Yes, yes, especially saying that his wife is clingy in front of a single male doctor is really throwing a bunch of dog food into the hospital. It's really not appropriate, no. It’s so suitable.”

After saying that, Mu Chun shook his head and then his hand. Li Mu saw that Mu Chun didn't look like a serious doctor, but rather looked like a guest in a variety show who was responsible for making jokes.