Crazy Psychologist

Mu Chun explained to Dai Lan the harmful effects of [pica] on children's health in easy-to-understand words, and told Dai Lan, "Such children often have some communication barriers with their parents, such as long-term poor parent-child relationship, parents There is no time to take care of the children, the children are lonely for a long time, or some children eat those things uncontrollably because they are afraid of losing something. They may not think those things are delicious when they eat them, but they eat them. During and after eating, children will develop a sense of security. They may feel at ease, feel their fears recede, or feel that their prayers will come true.

Children are helpless. Children are not like adults who can fight for and work hard on many things. If the child wants to find his mother, he can't do it. He can't find it.

When Zhou Ming came to the hospital for the first time, he drove all the doctors away by shouting and then escaped from the emergency room window.

Do you know where he went? "Mu Chun sighed.

Dai Lan had tears in his eyes, "He escaped from the hospital and didn't go home. Where could he go? In such a cold weather, where could he go? He's only so young."

"He is looking for you. Only you know where he will go to find you. I don't know, nor does Dr. Fang Ming, and obviously Zhou Ming's father doesn't know either." After Mu Chun finished speaking, he remained silent and did not look at Dai. Lan, just sitting opposite Dai Lan silently and transparently.

"I don't know." Dai Lan replied frustrated and impatiently.

It seems that it is too difficult for Dai Lan to take on the responsibility of being a mother now.

Muchun thought to himself.

How could the long-term parent-child relationship change overnight, with a drinking father and a busy working mother? It seemed that Dai Lan never wanted Zhou Ming to know about this work.

If you want to hide it, how can you take the child back and take care of it?

Thinking about it this way, it would be better for Zhou Ming's health to stay in the hospital, but how could Mu Chun take care of such a thing.

"Okay, then do you know what Zhou Ming ate? Can you think of it?"

Before Muchun finished asking, Dai Lan shook his head impatiently, "How do I know? I don't know."

"It's wool. Could it be some kind of toy? Or something like a blanket at home?" Mu Chun tried to help Dai Lan search for possible "food."

Dai Lan looked at Zhou Tong with disgust, then looked out the window.

I don’t know when it got dark outside the window, and there was a feeling that night had come early again. In January, the sky was filled with cold air, and in the winter around the sea, countless sorrows condensed.

"Think about it again, this matter is very important, because [pica] will relapse. If you can't guarantee that you will appear in front of Zhou Ming on time every week, it is best to remember what made Zhou Ming like this. After eating and eating for such a long time, what kind of food can be eaten at home without being discovered?"

When Mu Chun said this, Dai Lan became a little nervous, and his mind started to work hard, wool, wool, wool~~~~~~~

Suddenly, Dai Lan thought of it.

"Xiao Neng, it's Xiao Neng." Dai Lan shouted excitedly.

At this time, Zhou Tong also woke up and asked, "Xiao Neng, what Xiao Neng?" Zhou Tong, who had just thought about coming, was startled, and it took him half a minute to realize that he was in the hospital.

"You woke up just in time. Let me ask you, is there anything wrong with Xiao Neng?" Dai Lan asked Zhou Tong.

"Well, Xiao Neng is losing his hair. His ears seem to be bald. You said I'm not bald yet. Why is this little bear bald?" Zhou Tong said in confusion.

Muchun probably understood that this "Xiao Neng" should be a toy doll, a "little bear".

"It's really possible. When I went to pick up Xiao Ming at home a few times recently, I didn't seem to see Xiao Neng. Maybe he hid it on purpose. Why didn't I find it?" Dai Lan said guiltily.

"Then in the next three months, you two should pay more attention to Zhou Ming's situation, especially the one who has been with Zhou Ming for a long time. You must not let Zhou Ming eat these things again." Muchun said.

"But, how do I know if he will eat it? I can't keep looking at him." Zhou Tong asked with a weak voice and a yawn.

Seeing Zhou Tong's useless look, Dai Lan felt angry again and said, "Why don't we just throw that bear away? Can't we just throw it away? What else will he eat without Xiao Neng?" ?”

When Mu Chun heard this, his heart skipped a beat, as if a mineral water bottle had rolled down the stairs, or as if someone had poured a basin of glass marbles on Mu Chun's heart.

Muchun stood up and seriously explained the ins and outs and common causes of pica to Dai Lan and Zhou Tong.

"This disease is common in early childhood and has the possibility of long-term development. Years of research have shown that although this disease is related to a lack of certain trace elements in the body, Dr. Fang Ming has examined Zhou Ming and ruled out the lack of trace elements. One question.

Since it is not a lack of trace elements, we must think about it from other aspects and then pay attention to it. "

Before the two of them could speak, Muchun continued to speak, becoming more and more serious as he spoke. Dai Lan and Zhou Tong also listened more and more seriously.

Mu Chun vaguely felt that maybe the [Word of Authority] in the [Talent Value] had played a role. In any case, at least the two of them heard Mu Chun's words with their minds.

After nearly an hour of talks, there was finally some improvement.

Zhou Tong said painfully that the child's loneliness was his fault and that he couldn't quit drinking. Every time he thought about his failed life, he wanted to drink even more. If he could quit drinking, he would do anything.

Dai Lan didn't believe what Zhou Tong said, but she tried to encourage him, "You'd better work hard and try harder. Xiao Ming is still young. Since we agreed during the divorce that you would take care of Xiao Ming, you must also take responsibility." .”

When Dai Lan said this, Zhou Tong was actually not happy to hear these words. He felt wronged. He knew that Dai Lan was doing some less honorable work outside. He didn't dare to say it or scold him. First of all, it was two people. They are no longer husband and wife, so what qualifications does he have?

Every time he thought about this, Zhou Tong wanted to drink wine and sleep day and night.

"Okay, I'll think of a way to stop drinking." Zhou Tong said through gritted teeth.

"You must not drink alcohol for the next half month. In half a month, on the 23rd, the elementary school will be on winter vacation. At that time, you need to spend more time with Xiao Ming. No one can do these things except the two of you. No one can help.”

Muchun sincerely requested that he beg his parents on behalf of Zhou Ming.

"Then, I'll try to come and see Zhou Ming in the middle of the week, for example, to pick him up from school. Is that useful?" Dai Lan stood up.

"It's useful, very good. Is there anything else I can do?" After confirming Dai Lan, Muchun continued to hold Dai Lan to let her think about the problem.

Zhou Tong on the side was thinking about other things. After a while he said: "Then should we throw away that little Neng?"

Dai Lan was also confused after hearing Zhou Tong's question, so they both looked at Muchun, "You can't throw it away, but you can buy a new bear and start a new beginning."

"Then the old one is still at home, what should I do? One is called Xiaoxiong and the other is Xiaoneng? Are they both placed on Xiaoming's bed?" Dai Lan touched the back of his neck and asked awkwardly.

"Buy a new one first. It's best to give it to Xiao Ming in a safe and warm atmosphere. It can be the same doll as this Xiao Neng. Tell Zhou Ming to take good care of it and don't let it lose all its fur again. "Mu Chun suggested.

The two nodded. Mu Chun saw that the communication had a slight effect and that the relationship between the two was not as tense as before, so he suggested, "If it is possible, even though they are divorced, the children will still be shared by the two of them. You can't spend more time and more methods with your children.

As far as I know, Zhou Ming actually understands the separation of the two of you, so he endures it silently without making any noise or fuss. He only wants to find his mother when he can't bear it or in his own way. When he sees his mother in trouble, When faced with a dilemma that he knows what to do, he screams loudly, becomes silent, or runs away. This is because he is still a child and should not have to endure so much. If you need to discuss it, I'll go see Zhou Ming first. Dad and mom still need to discuss this matter. No matter what your relationship is, the child still sees dad and mom.

For a child, besides his father and mother, who else in the world can he rely on, and who else does he want to protect? "

After Mu Chun finished speaking, he turned around and walked towards the door, but Dai Lan seemed to see a flash of tears in Mu Chun's eyes.

The tears seemed to flash into her eyes.

Fifteen minutes later, Zhou Ming had already changed his clothes, holding Muchun's hand, smiling happily.

"Magic, doctors really have magic. I believe it. When I grow up, I also want to be a magical doctor. Doctor Mu, are there any doctors whose magic is specifically designed to take care of children? Only used to help children. . I want to be that kind of doctor who can protect all children." Zhou Ming looked at Mu Chun seriously and innocently and said.

Zhou Ming raised his head, his round and bright eyes blinking.

Muchun knelt down and helped Zhou Ming adjust his collar, then patted Zhou Ming on the shoulder and encouraged: "All doctors are doctors who protect children. Has Zhou Ming ever heard of a pediatrician?"

Zhou Ming shook his head.

"Well, pediatricians are very hardworking, very serious, and very kind. Their daily work is mainly to treat the children Zhou Ming said. If Zhou Ming is willing to endure hardship and spend a long time practicing magic, he can aspire to become a pediatrician now. "After Muchun finished speaking, he nodded vigorously towards Zhou Ming.

Zhou Ming immediately made a victory gesture, "Okay, then I will determined to become a pediatrician and protect all children in the world."

"Okay, I'm waiting for you to join our team of doctors and look forward to your efforts to help more people." Mu Chun also imitated Zhou Ming and made a victory gesture.

The door opened, with Dai Lan in front and Zhou Tong behind. Both of their eyes were red and swollen. When they saw Mu Chungang and wanted to say some words of thanks, Mu Chun shook his head and looked at Zhou Ming again. Push Zhou Ming in front of Dai Lan.

"Mom, I want to be a doctor. When I grow up, I want to be a pediatrician, OK, Mom, OK?" Zhou Ming hugged Dai Lan and said happily.

Dai Lan looked at Mu Chun at a loss, and Mu Chun nodded with a smile.

"Okay, okay, being a doctor is good, very good. Xiao Ming wants to be a doctor, mom. Mom and dad must support Xiao Ming and study with Xiao Ming when they have time after get off work, okay?"

If you want to be a doctor, you really need to work hard now. Doctors are people who read a lot of books and have magic skills. "

Mu Chun didn't know how Dai Lan could say that doctors have magic. After thinking about it for a moment, it might be that Zhou Ming had mentioned in the office that Mu Chun had lied to him, and there was no magic at all.

In any case, when Dai Lan said this, Zhou Ming was very happy. He danced and took the hand of his father Zhou Tong, "Dad, did you hear it? Mom also supports me to become a doctor. If I become a doctor, the first thing to do is It’s just to cure your drinking problem, I don’t want dad to be drunk all day long.”

When Zhou Tong heard this, he was speechless. Tears seemed to block his throat. In his heart, he was filled with shame, shame, and shame.

It was hard to squeeze out a sentence, "Okay, listen to mom, no, listen to Xiao Ming, be a doctor, it's better to be a doctor."

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A family of three, with dad on the left and mom on the right. Xiao Ming held his dad’s right hand with his left hand, and his mom’s left hand with his right hand. He raised his head and proudly said goodbye to the nurse at the nurse station, and said goodbye to Mu Chun at the elevator entrance. It felt like Zhou Ming blinked at him, and a flash passed, and the stars shone brightly.

After Muchun sent the three people away, he walked quickly to the nurse's station. Just when he was about to ask where Dr. Fang Ming was now, the nurse said, "I'll help collect the patients later."

"Doctor Fang Ming, Doctor Fang Ming, admit patients, 10 beds." Nurse Lin Han shouted.

Muchun saw Fang Ming busy receiving patients skillfully. At this time, Fang Ming looked completely different from Fang Ming in the surgical clinic of Huayuanqiao Hospital.

He was energetic, quick-thinking, and had a warm heart.

At Huayuanqiao Hospital, Fang Ming seemed cold and somewhat unapproachable.

Perhaps Fang Ming is more often seen alone in Huayuanqiao Hospital, while Fang Ming is always busy among patients in Zhinan Annex, or has just come off the operating table.

Muchun waited in the corridor for a while, took out the small notebook in his white coat pocket, and recorded the diagnosis and family treatment plan for [pica]. After recording, he closed the small notebook and put it in his white coat pocket, and looked at it. At about the same time, I left a note for Fang Ming at the nurse's desk - I'll go see Bai Lu and see you soon.

Mu Chun walked to the double ward where Bai Lu was located. Bai Lu was sitting on the bed looking out the window in a daze. From what she could see, there was only a red outer wall of the hospital, but nothing could be seen.

She seemed to be in good spirits, but she didn't know what she was thinking. She didn't notice Muchun standing at the door at all.

There was an open potato salad, a takeaway sushi and a glass of milk on the low cabinet next to the hospital bed. Bailu could eat anything. There were no special dietary taboos, but looking at these foods, she almost never took a bite.

Mu Chun knocked on the door, and Bai Lu turned around after a few seconds and found Mu Chun behind the door, smiling beautifully but reluctantly.

"He went in." Bai Lu said.

"Ah, when? Yesterday or today?" Muchun asked.

"In the morning, he called me and said he couldn't take me out of the hospital. I'm sorry. I guess that's what happened. I checked Weibo and his fans all knew about it. Many articles also talked about it. , but he never explained it to me, he just told me to believe him that such a thing has never happened before, and it is not what people say outside." Bai Lu tried her best to keep smiling.

Like weak sunlight, it barely stayed on Bai Lu's face.

Muchun nodded and admitted, "He told me, he said he didn't do it, he didn't do anything, but I always feel that he didn't make everything clear. The possible reasons are, first, maybe he He didn't know what was going on; secondly, he had something to hide.

Reason one, I can understand; reason two is more difficult, because what a person wants to hide and how much he wants to hide involves many aspects of that person, and it is impossible for me to understand them all in such a short period of time.

If you want to know the truth, it should be easier than mine. "

After Bai Lu listened carefully to Mu Chun's words, her lips moved slightly, wanting to say something, but she still didn't. She turned her face and continued to look at the red exterior wall outside the window.

Quiet, the ward was filled with noises from the corridor from time to time.

The ward is a place like this. There are always sounds outside, 24 hours a day. Even if there is only one patient in the ward, as long as his hearing is not damaged, he will always know that he is in an environment with people moving around. Many patients are in the hospital because of I met all kinds of strangers and became less pessimistic and less lonely.

Of course, some people feel more fear and sadness when they are hospitalized. The differences between people are sometimes as huge as ants and elephants.

However, human beings are indeed so similar, they are basically like a family.

"I'm actually~~~~~ not afraid of doctors' jokes, I'm actually~~~~~~" Bai Lu hesitated before speaking.

Muchun spoke up for her, "You actually believe in He Ping and believe that your husband has not done those things, right?"

Bai Lu shed tears, but still did not nod.

"Since you believe in him, believe it to the end and tell him that you believe in him." Mu Chun said slowly, his voice as gentle as cicada wings.

"I don't know, I don't know, you know, I can't explain clearly. When I think about this, I feel desperate and don't know what to do. I become confused, crazy, overwhelmed, depressed, in short It’s just not good in any way.”

Bai Lu said, hugging the quilt and resting her head on her knees.

"It must be because of my own reasons." Muchun said.

Bai Lu didn't want to say, even to Muchun, she didn't want to say what she really thought, because the idea was too terrible and simply violated people's conscience.

When she learned that He Ping cheated on her female fan, Bai Lu was in pain. It was as painful as most women knowing that their husbands were cheating on her. This pain gradually broke out, but as this pain broke out and grew in Bai Lu's body, There was something else she couldn't say.