My Sister is Very Obsessive

"What do you think of Qianqian?"

That's right, this was the first sentence the old man said, and my answer was, "What?"

He smiled slightly, ignoring my complex expressions of confusion, confusion, sluggishness, etc., and continued to talk about himself.

"Do you know why we live in the school staff compound, but we still want her to live in the school dormitory?"

I shook my head and didn't speak, but continued to listen to the old man's story quietly,

"Qianqian has been extraordinarily withdrawn since she was a child, which is also my fault. I shouldn't have imposed the habit of reading on her when she was naive. I remember one time, probably in preschool, when she She came back crying aggrieved, and my heart was broken when I watched her cry..."

"...Her grandmother had doted on her since she was a child. When she saw her heart crying so sadly, she would take her to the teacher to have a theory. I was also very angry at that time, but still kept quite reasonable. I took her hand. , ask her why she is crying, do you know what she said?"

Of course I didn't know, so I shook my head,

"She asked me, is the sky blue or colored?" After speaking, the old man looked at me and smiled, "Xiao Le, what color is the sky?"

"The color of the sky..." After thinking about it for a while, I gave an uncertain answer, "The sky should have no color, right? In Zhuangzi's wanderings, there is such a sentence 'The sky is so bright, its righteousness is evil? Its far away And nothing is too evil?' And, according to modern astronomical observations, the sky is only a relative concept."

After listening to my answer of yes or no, Mr. Sun just smiled and shook his head,

"'The sky is colored, just like a child's inner world, it should be hazy, dreamy, and fickle. We shouldn't paint their world with realistic colors too early.' This is Qianqian's kindergarten That's what the teacher wrote to me."

"First, I wrote a letter to her. In the letter, I searched many Chinese and foreign classics, and also analyzed from a scientific point of view why the sky we see is blue. Finally, I also signed the letter. Work unit and name."

Speaking of which, he shook his head and laughed,

"I have to admit that at that time, I had the idea of ​​using my identity as a university professor to humiliate her and vent my anger on my granddaughter's behalf. Later, she sent me a letter with only one sentence, which was the sentence just now, I accepted and sent her a letter of apology back."

"However, it was I who overestimated the character of this teacher. She took my apology with pride. Since then, this letter has become her talking point. A place of fame."

"It was only two months later that I found out that she became taciturn," Mr. Sun sighed, "Can you imagine that when you are in school, your teacher is always in front of the whole class and even the whole school. , say how your parents are not as good as yourself, what kind of feeling it is."

I followed the old man's assumption and changed "parent" to "mother" after thinking for a while, and I became a little angry.

If it is now, I will definitely fight with the teacher. If I was young, I would probably get tired of school and play truant and become silent and withdrawn.

"Psychologically speaking, there are two periods of personality formation in a person, one is the well-known rebellious period of youth, and the other is the period of three to six years old."

"Before the age of three, children are like fledglings that have just broken their shells. They will only be in the nest. When they are three to six years old, when they first try to contact the outside world independently, everything in the world is new and interesting to them. Yes, they should gradually understand through their own contact, however, my mistake was to freeze the shallow world prematurely."

"Later, she was always withdrawn. We encouraged her many times to go out and meet more friends. However, she would always take the trouble to leave home and sit quietly in the library for a day. This kind of behavior, when she was fourteen years old Especially when.”

"She has never had any friends, and I'm very worried about her. People are social animals, they need to be alone, but more often they are in groups, but Qianqian...Before university, there was never an invitation My classmates and friends came to my house.”

"I know why I have to send her to the school dormitory even though she is so close to home."

I nodded to show my understanding.

"You are Qian Qian's first friend of the opposite sex... She is nineteen years old and only four months older than you, do you understand what I mean?"

"We are friends, I will pay attention." I looked at Mr. Sun with a serious expression and a serious tone.

The old man lowered his head and smiled slightly,

"I just hope Qianqian can have friends and be happy, and I hope you can treat her with sincerity. As for the rest, it's your young people's business... I'm getting old!"

I licked my lips and nodded.

At this moment, the door of the study was knocked, and grandma Sun's kind voice came from outside the door,

"Old man, when the meal is over, can't we let Xiaole have a meal and then talk about it?"

"Haha!" Grandpa Sun laughed, "Let's go, eat."

I smiled and nodded, followed behind the old man Sun, and walked out of the study. At this time, my sister and the school girl were sitting on the sofa, holding their mobile phones and playing attentively.

…

"Qianqian, left and left!" The elder sister's voice could be heard from far away.

"Oh, I heard, don't lie on your stomach, run." The school girl kept swiping at the screen. Although her tone was short, her tone was very gentle.

"The opposite is a sniper, you will be sniped when you stand up." My sister controlled the character to sneak and crawl in the grass.

"I'll drive over, you're ready to get in the car." Sun Jueqian's voice was still unhurried, "I'll drive over and run over him later."

…

I smiled a little speechlessly, and calmly looked at the old man Sun out of the corner of the eye. He didn't think there was anything wrong with Sun Jueqian playing with his mobile phone, but he still had a smile on his face.

In addition to having friends, she has an interest in playing games, which is good.

"Two girls, come and eat, and then play."

"Right now, there are already twenty-two left, and it's almost time to eat chicken."

"What kind of chicken are you eating!" Grandma Sun didn't understand this. "There is a white chicken on the table. Come and eat it."

"Grandma, eat first, Yan Yan and I will wait."

"Hey, this kid, I don't read books anymore, but play with my mobile phone instead."

"I said old woman, you should say a few words less."

"I said you're not happy with the child." Grandma Sun rolled her eyes at Grandpa Sun, turned around and went into the kitchen again.

The old man Sun smiled slightly, and followed into the kitchen, and then came the conversation between the two elders...

Grandma Sun: "What are you doing with the wine?"

Grandpa Sun: "Drink a little, drink a little."

Grandma Sun: "What wine are you drinking!"

Grandpa Sun didn't answer, but walked out with a smile on a clay pot and raised it to me,

"It's a good thing, let's have a drink today?"

"You old man, Xiaole is still a student. How can you be a teacher?"

Grandma Sun's voice came from the kitchen again.

Grandpa Sun laughed, walked over to me, pointed to the kitchen and said in a low voice,

"Don't pay attention to her, this old woman is old and talks a lot."

What can I say, it's impossible to agree, so I can only smile awkwardly,

"Grandpa Sun, your relationship with Grandma Sun is really good."

"Forty-four years ago, I married her when I was nineteen," Mr. Sun took two glasses, poured wine, and said with a smile, "At that time, she was younger than Qianqian, and she was dressed in rustic style. Yes, but I just don't know why, when I saw her, I felt that she was the daughter-in-law of our old Sun family, and then she really became a member of our old Sun family."

After speaking, the old man Sun laughed out loud.

"You old man, you are confused before you drink. What nonsense are you talking about in front of your children? You have no formality for a day."

"Look, she's still shy!" Mr. Sun sat in the first place, pointed to the seat next to him, motioned me to sit down, and took a sip, "I was very young at that time, and I was very concerned about the future of the country and myself. The fate is very confused..."

While drinking, Grandpa Sun confided to me, from his boyhood, to his youth, and then to middle age...

In his narration, I seem to have seen the ups and downs of life. The future and destiny that were originally unpredictable will appear so clear in retrospect. Everything seems to be fixed, but there is no Fixed number.