Pet King

The sound of the wind outside seemed to be weakening, and the rain was also easing. As the TV news could not be seen without electricity, no one knew whether the typhoon had passed or it was only temporarily turned.

After listening to Cai Meiwen's narration, everyone finally learned about an unusual incident she had experienced and also understood her hardships. She can only say that she wants to be farther and more thorough than ordinary parents, not only considering the pet ’s life. The situation even takes into account how her daughter felt when her pet died.

If it is a lot of parents who are attentive, they must be very open-minded and say that pets die when they die. Little children, forget about a few days of sadness, what can happen?

But in fact, every child who had a pet when he was a child, even if he had only raised a pet briefly, will not forget the sadness and pain of the pet when he grows up. The more a child feels good about a pet, the more sad it becomes when he loses a pet. No one can tell whether this will have a long-term impact on the child's psychology and character. After all, the human brain and spiritual world are very complicated, and like a universe full of mysteries .

Cai Meiwen's experience reminded Zhang Zi'an of Stephen King's horrible "Pet Cemetery", which was twice brought to the screen. There are some subtle similarities between the two.

In "Pet Cemetery", the mother experienced a terrible death at the age of 8. The deceased was her sister, who was tortured by the disease before she died. This left a deep psychological shadow on her, so When the father tried to tell his young daughter about life and death, he exploded.

The young daughter raised a cat and regarded the kitten as a treasure and remained inseparable. One day the kitten was killed by a passing car when she went out to play. The daughter was too sad because she could not bear the love of the cat. Father An extremely wrong decision was made ... the rest is irrelevant.

Cai Meiwen, because of her shadow of death when she was a child, did not let her daughter keep pets that lived too short, and did not want to see her pets die prematurely to grieve her daughter. She has the shadow of the hero and heroine in Stephen King ’s book. .

If it is just horror, it starts with horror and finally horror, it is no different from the fast-food network, but Stephen King, as the king of horror, actually talks about human nature in his book. Take the book "Pet Cemetery", under the horror appearance, it actually tells the importance of the concept of life and death.

Suppose that after the mother's sister had incurable disease, the elders knew that the sister would die, and explained the correct concept of life and death to the mother in advance. Then the mother would not leave an unexplainable psychological shadow when the sister died, and then the father tried to give the daughter When talking about life and death, she would not interrupt her father rudely.

If the young daughter had the correct outlook on life and death, she could face the death of cats more bravely, and the subsequent tragedies would not have happened.

Similarly, Cai Meiwen's first contact with death turned out to pass by a cruel murderer, and then experienced the death of her pet dog. Prior to this, her parents had never talked to her about death.

I have to say that many Chinese parents are like this, and they are extremely taboo about talking to their children about two things-sex and death. In order to think that these two things are extremely dirty and unbearable, parents believe that as long as they don't say it, their children will not be in contact. To these two things.

As for when to say it, probably never say it, they think that the child will naturally understand when they grow up, there is no need to say it.

But can they really do that? As long as they don't talk, will the child remain pure and childlike forever?

Those news about junior high school girls 'toilets or junior high school boys' slashing dozens of classmates with their classmates are actually commonplace.

Because children are now generally precocious, parents' taboos often make children ignorant and unguarded when they face **** and death for the first time. It is also inevitable that they make big mistakes. The root lies in parents.

Many schools now popularize **** education courses, but it seems that schools and parents do not care about the aspect of life and death.

Another reason why parents and schools veiled their deaths is that it may be difficult to explain the death. Parents have different levels of education, and even they do n’t really understand death. Does the child understand?

Atheism occupies a dominant position in Chinese society, but this also makes parents more at a loss when it comes to telling the concept of life and death.

Parents in Western countries are a bit more trouble-free. If it is convenient, you can tell your child that the dead pets and family are going to heaven to accompany God. This will make it easier for the child to accept and understand. When the child grows up, he can tell more. Level of life and death.

What do Chinese parents say? Could it be possible to tell the child that your puppy is going to heaven with the emperor? Or went to Xitian to accompany the Buddha? This doesn't seem to fit.

Maybe the child will cry and ask, will I see it in the next Journey to the West?

After all, the paradise in the West only exists in people's imagination, and the heaven in the East has been deeply popularized by film and television decades ago ...

For difficult problems, it is common practice for parents to set aside indefinitely.

Because of her psychological shadow of death, Cai Meiwen's way to prevent her daughter from repeating her mistakes ~ www.wuxiaspot.com ~ turned out to not let her daughter keep pets with short life span, instead of telling her daughter the correct view of life and death at the appropriate time. It's the same as covering the ears, because as she said, people can't control death, whether it is the death of others, the death of pets, or the death of themselves.

Whether human destiny is dominated by free will or destiny, it is delusional to want to dominate death-you do n’t want to die, others may want you to die, others may not kill you, earthquakes, volcanic typhoons, asteroids, and other natural disasters May also kill you.

Zhang Zi'an couldn't imagine if his parents died not when he was an adult, but when he was a child, how much his psychology would be affected, because his parents did n’t tell him about life and death. In this regard, they told others Most parents make no difference.

Even in his adult life, if there was no dream world created by Zhuang Xiaodie, he would not be truly relieved of the sudden death of his parents. If he was a child ... no matter it is the path of fate or his personality, he will definitely Make a huge difference.

However, living in a pet shop, he has seen pets grow old, die and die daily. He has cultivated his simple view of life and death in a subtle way, so if a parent dies in his childhood ... his bearing capacity may be better than other children, who? Can you make it clear?