Rebirth Junior High School: The Excelling Top Student Goddess

Chapter 2262 examine our marriage

"Did something really happen?" Zhou Sheng Beiqian put away the joke on his face, "What's going on? Did he bully you?"

"No." Yun Hua's voice was very low, "I guess I need to re-examine my marriage and marry him... Is it too hasty..."

Zhou Shengbeiqian was taken aback by Yun Hua's words.

He sat down across from her, "What happened?"

"fine."

"It's nothing, you will say such a thing." Zhou Shengbeiqian's face was very serious, "Huahua, didn't he...he bullied you?"

Yun Hua's tears fell all of a sudden.

She turned her head away, not wanting to be seen what she was like at the moment.

Zhou Sheng Beiqian reached out his hand, wanting to wipe her tears.

Yun Hua blocked his hand, "Leave me alone, I'm fine."

"I'll go find him!" He said coldly, "I want to ask him why he did this to you!"

Yun Hua wiped her tears and looked up at him, "No."

"Huahua, it's already at this time, are you still thinking about him? Does he think about you? As long as he puts you in his heart, he won't have the heart to hurt you!"

Zhou Shengbeiqian's voice was very cold, "You risked your life to save him, and you saved him twice! He owes you more than two lives! But how did he treat you? How could he bear it, how could he be willing!"

Yun Hua lowered her head and lowered her eyes, "Saving him was voluntary and has nothing to do with him."

"Huahua!" Zhou Sheng Beiqian was really angry, "What do you mean it has nothing to do with him? Isn't he the one you saved? Can he live to this day without you? Even if he doesn't love you, he should at least be grateful to you ! Did he do it?"

Yun Hua was silent for a while, then slowly raised her head, her eyes seemed to be clouded with mist, "I thought...you would speak for him, after all, you have always...respected and admired him so much."

"It has nothing to do with those." Zhou Sheng Beiqian said, "I will never forget his kindness to me when I was young, but this does not mean that I must agree with everything he did. Especially...you! I... I can't believe it now, he will treat you like this!"

Yun Hua didn't speak.

However, Zhou Sheng Beiqian looked angry, "Could it be that amnesia really has such a big impact on people? Will it fundamentally change a person's character? I am very unfamiliar with him, he shouldn't be like this."

Yun Hua chuckled, "Maybe it's because I shouldn't have forced him to marry me. It's just taking advantage of someone's danger."

"What do you call taking advantage of others!" Zhou Shengbeiqian felt helpless and distressed, "You put your own life and death on the line to save his life, and you have to obtain a certificate with him. He should be thankful and grateful. You are so good, he deserves it." Not on you!"

"No matter how you say it, you can't cover up the fact that I forced the marriage." Yun Hua chuckled.

"Uncle Tan and Aunt Ji are also thinking about you. They know that you have never given up on him, and you have never been able to get out. For them, if you really like him that much, then overcome all difficulties and get along with him." Get married and be with him, as long as you can be happy." Zhou Sheng Beiqian said, "For him, being able to marry you is even more honored, what is he dissatisfied with?"

"What about me now?" Yun Hua looked at Zhou Shengbeiqian, "Married, disillusioned?"

Zhou Shengbeiqian looked at her for a while, and said softly, "Sometimes, liking someone is not really love, but just an obsession. You think you will be happy when you are with him, but in fact you are together, just Painful. Maybe..."

"Maybe what?"

"Maybe you don't love him as much as you think."

Yun Hua was stunned, and muttered to herself, "Maybe... I don't love him as much as I imagined...?"

"Ask yourself, ask your heart." Zhou Shengbeiqian's voice was very soft, "Your liking for him has become a habit, and it has completely imprisoned yourself. You have gone through life and death together, and you risked your life. Saved him more than once... There is a psychological effect called the sunk cost effect, which can be used in many things, including feelings."

"The sunk cost effect, in simple terms, is that the more you pay, the harder it is to let go. Over time, it will become an obsession! In fact, you may not like that person anymore, but you have paid so much. Like it After being with him for so long, it's hard for you to let go easily, and it's even harder to see your heart clearly."

Zhou Shengbeiqian reached out and touched her hair, "The longer you are eroded by this effect, the longer you will keep your obsession. Once you really get his response, after you really have him, you may relax instantly. At this moment , you will find that your obsessions in the past seem inexplicable, let yourself say, you may not understand why you liked it so much at that time..."

"Don't be afraid."

Zhou Sheng Beiqian said in a low voice, "It's not that you've changed, but that you haven't liked him that much for a long time. What supports you is your obsession. You haven't changed, but you're tired. The love that has given too much, It will be tiring. When you take off the filter of liking, you will find that many aspects of him, in fact, you did not like in the past, you just endured, subconsciously..."

Yun Hua reached out and rubbed his temples.

After a while, she turned her head to look at Zhou Shengbeiqian, "You mean, my liking for him stems more from my obsession with him, because I have paid too much for him, so I Can't bear to let go?"

"I think so." Zhou Sheng Beiqian's tone was very flat.

His attitude will not make you feel any offense, which is what a professional psychologist can do.

He will not comment on your actions and thoughts, will not say what you did wrong, will not comment on whether you are stupid, he will only tell you the facts with the calmest attitude, which can minimize your inner shame.

Many people are ashamed to face a psychiatrist because they are afraid of hearing other people's evaluation of themselves and being afraid of being criticized by others...

Yun Hua was silent, "I don't know if it is, but I... I will never forget that at the lowest point of my life, it was he who pulled me out of the abyss, and she saved me."

"Huahua, it wasn't him who saved you, but yourself." Zhou Shengbeiqian's expression was very sincere, "At that time, you already had a serious tendency to depression, but you didn't know it."

"……Yeah?"

"He asked me to diagnose you. At that time, he wanted to hide it from you, so I couldn't use the test to give you an accurate notification of your condition. I can only do it for you by talking to you. Judgment. This is actually a bit of a violation, but because you are the person he cares about, I will violate the rules for him."