"Generally speaking, it takes 12 to 16 hours for the baby of a primiparous mother to pass through the birth canal, while it takes 8 hours to 12 hours for a multiparous mother to go through the birth canal, and you don't feel pain for 8 hours. Here." Nurse Qi said.

"Ah!" The mother went completely crazy, she still had pain for so long, and said excitedly: "I'm having a bad delivery, I need to have a section, quickly, call the doctor to do it for me."

"There are rules in the hospital. It's not that you can have a section if you want to. The hospital supports a natural delivery. You have no problem with a natural delivery. The doctor won't do it for you. Besides, your mother-in-law doesn't agree." I'm not excited anymore, and I don't make a lot of noise about having an autopsy.

Nurse Qi admired her mother-in-law's deterrent power to her very much, she moved out of her mother-in-law, and immediately gave up.

The mother knows in her heart that she can give birth naturally, but her mother-in-law absolutely does not agree with her cesarean section. Natural birth is good for the child, and the mother-in-law certainly hopes that her grandson will be good.

"Doctors……"

"I'm not a doctor, I'm a nurse." Nurse Qi said, in fact, her main job is to talk to the mother and divert her attention from the pain.

"Nurse." The mother hesitated for a moment, but couldn't help asking: "This is the first time I gave birth, and my friends all told me that giving birth for the first time, especially a normal delivery, would make me lose my composure. I don't want to lose my composure. It was embarrassing, so I wanted a cesarean."

"A woman is not only the most beautiful when she wears a wedding dress, but also when she is in the delivery room," said Nurse Qi.

"But." The mother was still worried. "Nurse, tell me honestly, when I give birth, will I lose my composure like what my friends said, will I cry, and even...even become incontinent, I don't want that."

For such mothers, nurses or doctors in the delivery room will say with a smile. "Don't worry, you'll be fine."

Nurse Qi was no exception and told the mother this way.

"Normal, do you mean I won't lose my temper?" the mother asked.

Nurse Qi smiled and said: "You haven't started giving birth yet, and I don't want to lie to you. No one can give a definite answer to what hasn't happened. In fact, for most immature mothers-to-be, they will be like Like ordinary mammals, they yell and have no image, and things like urinary incontinence are also normal. When the fetus descends in the birth canal, it will exert pressure on the rectum. If there is residual excrement in the rectum, it will It causes defecation, but don’t worry, our midwives and nurses will quickly clean up the discharge to ensure that the lower body of the parturient is sterile, so you don’t have to feel embarrassed. This kind of thing happens to almost every parturient, and no one will Don't mind, it's normal."

After listening to Nurse Qi's explanation, the mother was relieved. She pays attention to her image and cannot tolerate any flaws in herself, let alone incontinence. When she enters the delivery room, she will yell and scream in pain. Give her a caesarean section.

"Will I be in so much pain?" the mother asked again, she was very afraid of death, she had a hard time living a good life, and she couldn't bear to die.

"Doctor Ni." When Nurse Qi was about to answer, Ni Lehui entered the delivery room and checked the condition of the mother.

Hearing Nurse Qi calling her Doctor Ni, the mother asked, "Are you a doctor?"

"Yes." Ni Lehui nodded, and glanced at the parturient. Usually, the parturients who entered the delivery room would complain of pain, but she actually chatted with others like nothing happened. "You are calm."

Nurse Qi couldn't help laughing, and the other nurses also laughed. Ni Lehui didn't see the mother's ability, and the mother just kept quiet for a while.

"Doctor, when can I give birth?" the mother asked.

"Wait until the cervix is ​​fully opened." Ni Lehui said.

"I don't understand." The mother shook her head.

Ni Lehui took a look at the mother and explained: "The baby will come out soon after 10 fingers, and it will take a long time to go from 1 finger to 10 fingers."

"How many fingers have I reached?" The pregnant woman raised her hand, glanced at her fingers, and the corner of her mouth twitched. Ten fingers, she couldn't imagine.

"Two fingers." Ni Lehui replied.

"What?" The parturient was excited, and wanted to ask for an incision again. What a joke, only two fingers were opened, and she was in such pain. It would be no wonder if she didn't die of pain after ten fingers were opened.

"After the 3 fingers are opened, they will all be opened soon, and then the baby will be born." Ni Lehui explained, looking at the nurse, when the mother was pushed into the delivery room, did no one tell the mother about this situation?

"I told her, but she didn't pay attention to it." Nurse Qi said that someone told the mother that the screams of the mother were like slaughtering a pig, and she didn't hear it at all.

"The cervix is ​​fully dilated, and the baby's head begins to come out slowly when it reaches the ten fingers. This is a normal delivery." Ni Lehui asked sternly and concisely: "Nurse Qi, usually the puerpera needs to be dilated until the five fingers are opened before she pushes the mother. Open to two fingers."

In the operating room or delivery room, Ni Lehui was not recognized by her relatives.

In front of the mother, Nurse Qi couldn't speak directly, so she leaned forward and whispered in Ni Lehui's ear.

After listening, Ni Lehui fell silent.

"Doctor, will I be killed by pain?" the mother asked worriedly.

"No." Ni Lehui replied, she would not tell her like other doctors and nurses that it doesn't hurt at all. This is the most lie that doctors and nurses in the delivery room tell women. In China, many examinations and treatments are uncomfortable or painful.

Such as breast examination, bimanual examination, etc.

"My friend said that you still press your belly even though you know it hurts, regardless of how painful the patient is." The woman said.

Ni Lehui explained: "Pressing the stomach is to press the fundus of the uterus after the operation to remove lochia and blood clots, and promote the recovery of the uterus. If you are afraid of pain, ignore this link. Without this active intervention, lochia will be difficult to spontaneously. Expulsion, therefore, this is a very necessary diagnosis and treatment procedure. It is undeniable that the stomach pressing is indeed very painful for the puerpera who has just given birth and is still very weak. After the stomach pressing, some still need to have contractions Needles and injections for uterine contractions also hurt, and sometimes, the pain is low, and as soon as the uterine contraction infusion bottle is hung up, tears will flow."

"Doctor Ni." Nurse Qi was a little worried.

Ni Lehui glanced at her, whether in the operating room or the delivery room, she didn't want to lie to comfort the mother.

Childbirth is notoriously painful, and women who want to hear the answers they want to hear are deluding themselves.

The pregnant woman glanced at Nurse Qi, what she said was different from what the doctor said, but the questions she asked were also different. If Ni Lehui hadn't come, Nurse Qi would have given her a very tactful answer, but the result was the same.

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